How to Manifest Your Soulmate (Advice From Someone Who Did)

644SHARES

Are you wondering how to find your soulmate? This article explains how to use the power of manifestation to find your soulmate from a guy who actually did.

There are many definitions of what a “soulmate” is or should be.

A soulmate is the person we’re supposed to be with at this moment in time, given our current state of being and where we’re at in our journey.

Finding this person doesn’t need to be like searching for a needle in a haystack – we can attract them to us. Having a loving and fulfilling relationship with ourselves is the basis for having healthy relationships with others. Regardless of how others treat us, we will not be dependent on them to make us happy because we are already fulfilled before we enter into a relationship.

The relationship we have with ourselves will determine the nature of the relationships we have with the people, places and things in our lives. Which leads to the power of manifestation . . .

What does manifestation mean?

We are creating the reality we experience with the dominant thoughts we hold in our minds – manifestations are the people, places, things and situations we attract to us through the thoughts we have most frequently.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the relationship we will have with others, and this is why self-love is the key to creating loving and fulfilling relationships.

Everything and everyone we attract to us is a reflection of the frequency we are emitting to the universe. If we love ourselves, we will attract more love to us in other forms such as people who love us and things we love.

Curious about manifestation and want to learn more about it and the law of attraction? Check out my article on 5 Powerful Steps to Activate the Law of Attraction

What do we need to manifest a relationship?

The core concept of manifesting our desires is we attract what we are, therefore we must become that which we are seeking. To manifest a soul mate relationship we must first focus on the relationship we have with ourselves, which requires self-love.

The relationship we have with ourselves will determine the nature of the relationships we have with the people, places and things in our lives.

Once we have a loving and fulfilling relationship with ourselves, we will be able to have this with others.

Now you’re ready to manifest a relationship! Here’s how to find your soulmate:

We all have the power to manifest, and whether you realize it or not, we are all actively manifesting through our thoughts, words and actions. That’s why it’s important to consciously manifest that which we are seeking.

1. Self-love leads to becoming a magnet for love

Every manifestation begins with the desire to have something. In this case, that something is love. In order to attract love, we must first become a magnet for love so that we attract more love to us in the form of a romantic relationship.

A great place to start is taking yourself out on self-love dates and treating yourself the way you want your future partner to treat you.

We can all use more self-love in our lives! Check out these 25 Practices You Can Do to Make Self-Love a Habit

2. Every relationship is a mirror

We are constantly manifesting, therefore we must observe who we attract to us and use our discernment to assess whether or not they are right for us. Everyone we attract to us is reflecting something about ourselves.

If we don’t resonate with someone, we must see that they are our mirror and change our behavior, beliefs and thoughts to attract someone we do resonate with in the future.

3. Self-worth means not settling for less

If we are seeking a loving and fulfilling relationship, settling for anything less than that is the opposite of self-love. If we settle for less than our heart’s desires, we are giving others permission to treat us poorly, which leads to dysfunctional relationships and unhealthy attachments.

We must love ourselves enough to walk away from anything and anyone that no longer serves us if we want to manifest our true soul mate.

4. Have patience because everything happens at the right time

Some things take more time than others to manifest and this is why we must be patient with ourselves. As long as we are living in alignment with our truth, the universe will take care of the rest. Stay on your path of self-love and focusing on the love that you seek in your life.

Manifesting your soulmate starts with loving yourself

Something for us to keep in mind along the course of our journeys through life is the fact that we are here to have a human experience which involves loving ourselves as well as others.

As long as we are living in alignment with our truth, the universe will take care of the rest.

Just because we desire the affection of another person, it does not mean that they will reciprocate our good intentions. There are those who will seek to manipulate our desire for love, and this is why self-love is absolutely essential for recognizing these types of people to avoid these interactions.

The relationship we have with ourselves is the relationship we will have with others, and this is why self-love is the key to creating loving and fulfilling relationships.

When we want to manifest a relationship with someone who loves us, we must start by loving ourselves. This is how I found my soulmate, how others have, and how you can find your soulmate too.